Tip for the Day: Combine Patience with Serenity
Patience Serenity α /|\ Practise patience and view all things around you with serene eyes. The world will no longer withold the love you were born to receive. \|/ α (If you feel you can’t put your...
View ArticleTip for the Day: The Purpose of Duality
α /|\ Take a quiet moment to yourself. What’s the biggest issue you face? Now look at yourself in an imaginary mirror. Which part of you attracted that issue? For what purpose? Remember the ‘wet and...
View ArticleTip for the Day: Truth in a Relationship
Truth drives out falsity, the mother of lack-of-trust. When trust, the bedrock of a relationship, crumbles you have nothing to build on. Image sourced from Jeff Beck Shine on…! /|\ Paul C Burr Author...
View ArticleTftD: The Paradox of Joy and Hurt
“The person who hurts you is often the person you run to, in order to feel better.” Image sourced from Moments Count Shine on…! /|\ Paul C Burr Author of Learn to Love and Be Loved in Return, 2012: a...
View ArticleShame, Not-self-love, Is the First Step toward Mind Control
As a child I was taught to (do things that) please God and fear the Devil. By the age of 12, I allowed a cleric’s sermon to make me feel ashamed for all the ‘wrong’ things I did, thought and felt –...
View ArticleTftD: Truth Goes Hand in Hand with Trust but Ultimately Surpasses It
Honesty Being honest often requires courage. And courage is about letting go of fear and trusting yourself. Trust is the gap between what you know to be true and what you have faith in. And truth...
View ArticleTftD: The 4 Seeds of Negative Karma that Hold you Back
Extract from Defrag your Soul…. Only four things hold you back from that which your heart truly desires…. 1. Shame There is no shame in failure but failure is endemic to shame. 2....
View ArticleTftD: Changing your Character, Changes your Life
Image courtesy of Blaze Institute …All that happens is the result of character; the only manner in which the destiny can be changed is to change the character….. the chart of birth….is merely a map of...
View ArticleThe Currency of All Relationships: Truth, Trust and Passion
Shine on…! /|\ Paul C Burr Business/Personal Performance Coach & Author Follow @paulburr Filed under: Business, Coaching, Healing, Leadership, Love, Marketing, Personal, Pitfalls I've Fallen Into,...
View ArticleThe Decisions You Make, Are They Borne of Love or Fear?
“We change the map of life itself by changing our attitude towards it.” from The Mind of the Druid by E G Howe (Probably the most profound book I’ve ever read. I’ve read it 4 times and I’m still...
View ArticleThe Game of Life
Extract from Quick Guide IV – A Scorecard that Accounts for Mindfulness in Business. Adapted from Druid wisdom (ref: Light and Life, a series of booklets written by David Loxley, Chief Druid, The Druid...
View ArticleFull Moon/SuperMoon ~ July 22, 2013 ~ in Aquarius, Sun in Leo
Contemplate service and the satisfaction from giving. What have you done, since the last Full Moon, for the greater good without asking for anything in return? What could you do more of or...
View ArticleThe Mystique to the Game of Life
Extracts from my forthcoming booklet (now in draft form, being proof-read): The Mystique to the Game of Life (and Unrequited Love) #Mindfulness in Relationships Series, No 1 Have you ever loved someone...
View ArticleA Meditation on Unrequited Love
Love is Not-love Until… The battles I have fought to have you choose love. I have mustered the elements in vain. With swords, wands and wealth, I hold out the chalice of love to seal our bond. Yet I...
View ArticleMagic is…
…Something created out of nothing, the nothingness created from having no fear. When you release all your fear, all that remains is joy and wellbeing. Can there be anything more magical to life than...
View ArticleMindfulness Case Study: Unrequited Love
Extract from The Mystique to the Game of Life (and Unrequited Love) from Amazon US, UK and worldwide. Pre-reading to explain some of the terms used, see blog, The Game of Life Client Case Study of...
View ArticleHow to Track your Commitment to a Relationship – Personal or Business
A subset of an exercise, on building outcomes for a relationship, from my book… The Mystique to the Game of Life (and Unrequited Love). Pick a relationship you’re in, business or personal… Bring into...
View ArticleIn Your Business (or Personal) Life, What is Mindfulness?
Extracts from Quick Guide V: How to Apply Mindfulness to Business. Mindfulness Mindfulness means moment-to-moment, non-judgmental awareness. It is cultivated by refining our capacity to pay attention,...
View ArticleFull Moon in Gemini – 17 December 2013
Should I stay or should I go? At about 9.36am GMT there’s a full Moon in Gemini. Reflect, especially over the last two weeks, on all the things over which you have mixed emotions, and in Gemini, leave...
View ArticleParadise Is An Inside Job.
Who’s fooling whom? Judge not the paradise of fools. For their paradise is not yours. Even if only a fool would find joy there. Let them step naively (knavely). Let your and their joy be one. (Inspired...
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