What do you want to give to and receive from a relationship – SPIRITUALLY?

Extract from a self-help exercise in Part II of the newly published paperback version of For The Love of Lilith & How to Put Love into Practice (and Non-attach Yourself to It).

Personal change/alchemy applies a combination of four forces (which correlate to the four occultist elements of creation and four houses of the Tarot):

1. Spiritual – Fire and Wands
2. Emotional – Water  and Cups
3. Physical/Material – Earth  and Pentacles or Disks
4. Intellectual – Air and Swords

(In this extract I focus on the first aspect.)

1. Spiritual: (Fire/Wands)

• How important is it that you and your partner relate to one another spiritually? (Think of ‘spiritual’ as the highest level of consciousness or wakefulness a human can aspire to.)
• What sense of purpose do you want the relationship to hold for you? What do you want you and your partner to create together and individually – for what purpose?
• What image does this sense of purpose hold for you? [By ‘image’, I mean something that you can imagine quickly and mindfully - to keep your thoughts, intentions, actions and words in line with the purpose of the relationship - for example: a waltz, a pair of loaded guns, a yin-yang symbol where the inner female is present in the male, and the inner male is present in the female, two comedians, sugar and spice (and all things nice!), and so on.]
• What inner blocks [sources of anger, (toxic) shame, hurt or fear] do you want to release?
• What leaks (excessive and distractive habits that cause detriment to your livelihood) do you want to shore up?
• What inner qualities do you want to bring (more) to the surface and express in your behaviour? For example: love, passion, creativity, fun – loving, compassion, patience, self esteem, inner security, inner harmony, assertiveness, motivation, competence, curiosity, good manners, and eventually completeness!
• How will you demonstrate these inner qualities? What will you be doing differently or more of, individually or together?

Continued in the booklet…

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The above inner qualities should integrate with the emotional, physical and intellectual qualities you seek to share.

Shine on…!
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Paul C Burr
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